Make An Offer Like A Boss

Andi • March 23, 2023

These 10 money- and time-saving steps can help you craft a winning bid.

Cinematically speaking, this is the iconic moment — we’d forgive you if you imagined, say, putting a hand on your agent’s shoulder and whispering (in your best Vito Corleone) that you’re going to make them an offer they can’t refuse.

In reality, it’s not that simple (or dramatic). Your offer marks the beginning of a back-and-forth between you and the seller, typically with real estate agents advertising you both.

The more intentional you are about your offer, the better your chances of making a successful bid. Follow these nine steps, and you’ll be well prepared — that’s a true story. (“The Godfather” again. We couldn’t resist.)

#1 Know Your Limits

Your agent will help you craft a winning offer. You can trust your agent’s advice on price, contingencies, and other terms of the deal: It’s a mutually beneficial relationship. The more collaborative you are with your agent, the more quickly you’ll be able to move.

But ultimately, it’s you who decides what the offer will be — and you who knows what your financial and lifestyle limits are. Buying a home means mixing strong emotions with business savvy, so now is also a good time to reflect on your “musts.”

  • Have a top limit to your offer price because you’re also saving for retirement and love beach vacations? Stick to it. 
  • Want a vegetable garden or to paint your home’s exterior purple? Make sure your homeowner’s association rules permit it. 
  • Besides reading HOA rules, find out how much the HOA has in reserves to cover common area repairs. You don’t want to be slapped unexpectedly with a special assessment. 
  • Want a dog-friendly community? Make sure no pet weight limits are preventing you from sharing space with your (extra-large) canine bestie.

#2 Learn to Speak “Contract”

Essentially, an offer is a contract. The documents and wording vary across the country.

In the spirit of due diligence, take time to review sample offer forms before you’ve found a house. ( LawDepot.com  has purchase agreements for each state.) If you’re high-maintenance, a real estate attorney can explain the documents to you so you’re familiar with their vocabulary when you’re ready to pull the trigger on an offer with your agent. Your agent will have offer forms for your state. 

#3 Set Your Price

Homes always have a listing price. Think of it as the seller’s opening bid in your negotiation to buy a home.

As the buyer, your offer will include an offer price. This is the first thing home sellers look at when they receive a bid.

Your agent will help you determine whether the seller’s listing price is fair by running comps (or comparables), a process that involves comparing the house you’re bidding on to similar properties that recently sold in the neighborhood.

Several factors can also affect your bargaining position and offer price. For example, if the home has been sitting on the market for a while or you’re in a buyer’s market where supply exceeds demand, the seller may be willing to accept an offer that’s below the list price. Or if the seller has already received another offer on the home, that may impact the price you’re willing to offer. Your agent will help you understand the context here.

#4 Figure Out Your Down Payment

To get a mortgage, you have to make a down payment on your loan. For conventional loans (as opposed to government loans), making a 20% down payment enables borrowers to avoid having to pay private mortgage insurance, a monthly premium that protects the lender in case the borrower defaults on the loan.

But 20% isn’t always feasible — or even necessary. In fact, the median down payment in 2021 for buyers overall was 13%, and 7% for first-time buyers, according to the National Association of REALTORS®. Your lender will help you determine what the best down payment amount is for your finances.  Depending on the type of loan you get , you may even be able to put down as little as 0% on your mortgage.

You might qualify for one of the more than 2,400 down payment assistance programs nationwide. Many of them make funds available to households earning as much as 175% of the area median income. In other words, middle-income households. And the savings can be substantial: Home buyers who use down payment assistance programs save an average of $17,766 over the life of their loan,  according to real estate resource RealtyTrac . Find out more about  down payment assistance programs  in your state.

You can use an  online mortgage calculator  to see how different down payments would affect your mortgage premiums and how much you’ll pay in interest.

#5 Show the Seller You’re Serious: Make a Deposit

An EMD — short for earnest money deposit — is the sum of money you put down as evidence to the seller that you’re serious (read: earnest) about buying the house. If the seller accepts your offer, the earnest money will go toward your down payment at closing. However, if you try to back out of the deal, you might have to forfeit the cash to the seller.

A standard EMD is 1% to 3% of the sales price of the home (so, that would be $2,000 to $6,000 on a $200,000 loan). But depending on how hot the market is where you live, you may want to put down more earnest money to compete with other offers. 

In most cases, the title company is responsible for holding the earnest money in an  escrow account . In the event the deal falls through, the title company will disperse the funds appropriately based on the terms of the sales contract. Title companies also check for defects or liens on a seller’s title to make sure it can be transferred cleanly to you.

#6 Review the Contingency Plans

Most real estate offers include contingencies — provisions that must be met before the transaction can go through, or the buyer is entitled to walk away from the deal with their EMD.

For example, if an offer says, “This contract is contingent upon a home inspection,” the buyer has a set number of days after the offer is accepted to do an inspection of the property with a licensed or certified home inspector.

If something is wrong with the house, the buyer can request the seller to make repairs. But most repairs are negotiable; the seller may agree to some, but say no to others. Or the seller can offer a price reduction, or a credit at closing, based on the cost of the repairs. This is where your real estate agent can offer real value and counsel on what you should ask the seller to fix.

Just remember to keep your eye on the big picture. If you and the seller are bickering over a $500 repair to the hardwood floors, keep in mind that’s a drop in the bucket in relation to the size of the bid.

In addition to the aforementioned  home inspection contingency , other common contingencies include:

  • financing contingency , which gives home buyers a specified amount of time to get a loan that will cover the mortgage.
  • An  appraisal contingency , where a third-party appraiser hired by the lender evaluates the fair market value of the home to ensure the home is worth enough money to serve as collateral for the value of the mortgage.
  • clear title contingency , where the buyer’s title company verifies that the seller is the sole owner of the property and can legally convey ownership to the buyer.
  • home sale contingency , where the transaction is dependent on the sale of the buyer’s current home.

Although contingencies can offer protection to buyers, they can also make offers less appealing to the seller because they give buyers legal ways to back out of the sale without any financial repercussions. So, if you’re going up against multiple offers, making an offer with fewer contingencies can potentially give you an edge over the competition.

In other words: A chill offer is an attractive offer. But keep in mind you have to be comfortable with the risks that come with this strategy. If you don’t have a financing contingency, for example, and you can’t get a mortgage, you’d likely lose your earnest money deposit since you’re on the hook. (An outcome that’s decidedly un-chill for you.)

#7 Read the Fine Print About the Property

The sales contract states key information about the property, such as the address, tax ID, and the types of utilities: public water or private well, gas or electric heating, and so on. It also includes a section that specifies what personal property and fixtures the seller agrees to leave behind, like appliances, lighting fixtures, and window shades. The seller provides prospective buyers with a list of these items before they submit an offer. This can be another area of negotiation.

Carefully reviewing the property description also helps you know, for example, if the seller plans to take that unattached kitchen island with them when they move. (Stranger things have happened.)

#8 Make a Date to Settle

The sales contract you submit to the seller must include a proposed settlement date, which confirms when the transaction will be finalized. The clock starts as soon as the purchase agreement is signed. If you don’t close on time, the party that’s responsible for the delay may have to pay the other party compensation in the form of “penalty interest” at a predetermined rate.

A 30- to 60-day settlement period is common because it gives the typical home buyer time to complete a title search and obtain mortgage approval, but settlement periods can vary. Some sellers, for example, prefer a longer period so they have more time to move or look for their next house. Being flexible, with respect to the closing date, could give you more negotiating power in another area of the deal.

One thing that’s the same no matter where you live is that you’ll have a three-day period prior to settlement to review the Closing Disclosure, or CD — a five-page form that states your final loan terms and closing costs.

Once the sales contract is signed, the parties can change the settlement date if they both sign an addendum specifying the new day.

#9 Brace Yourself for a Counteroffer

If you’re making a lowball bid or going up against multiple offers, the seller may decide to make you a counteroffer — a purchase agreement with new terms, such as a higher sales price or fewer contingencies.

At that point, it’s up to you to accept the new contract, make your own counteroffer to the sellers, or walk away.

Don’t panic:  The next part of our guide  walks you through the counteroffer process, and it offers strategies to give you more negotiating power.

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By Andi Dyer February 1, 2026
Contingencies are one of the most misunderstood parts of selling a home. They often sound abstract or legalistic, but in practice, contingencies are simply conditions that must be satisfied for a sale to move forward. Understanding contingencies helps sellers evaluate risk clearly rather than reacting emotionally when offers arrive. What contingencies actually do Contingencies give buyers specific opportunities to investigate or confirm aspects of the purchase, such as inspections, financing, or appraisal. They are not inherently negative. They are a normal part of most transactions. For sellers, contingencies define when and how a buyer can walk away without penalty. Knowing this helps you understand how solid an offer truly is. Common contingencies sellers encounter Inspection contingencies allow buyers to assess the home’s condition. Financing contingencies protect buyers if their loan cannot be finalized. Appraisal contingencies address lender valuation. Each contingency carries a different level of risk and timeline. Some are straightforward. Others require more patience and communication. Why fewer contingencies aren’t always better It’s tempting to assume that fewer contingencies automatically mean a stronger offer. Sometimes that’s true. Other times, a buyer with fewer contingencies may be stretching financially or skipping protections that later resurface as stress. The goal is not eliminating contingencies, but understanding which ones matter most given your priorities. How contingencies affect leverage Contingencies shift leverage at different points in the transaction. Early on, sellers often have more leverage. During inspections or appraisal, that balance can shift temporarily. Knowing when leverage changes helps sellers respond calmly instead of feeling surprised. A planning-forward reframe Instead of asking, “How many contingencies are there?” ask: “Which contingencies am I comfortable with given my goals and timeline?” That question keeps the focus on alignment rather than fear. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Andi Dyer is a Bellingham-based real estate broker with RE/MAX Whatcom County, specializing in helping longtime homeowners and sellers make confident, well-informed decisions. With a calm, data-driven approach and strong negotiation expertise, Andi focuses on protecting equity, reducing stress, and guiding sellers through the process with clarity and care. 📍 Serving Bellingham and all of Whatcom County 📞 Call or text: 360 • 734 • 6479 📧 Email: andi [at] andidyer [dot] com If you’re reviewing offers and want help understanding how contingencies affect your risk, start here: 👉 Start with a low-pressure home value and seller planning tool here: https://www.andidyerrealestate.com/seller/valuation/ Zillow: https://www.zillow.com/profile/AndiDyer Realtor.com: https://www.realtor.com/realestateagents/andi-dyer Homes.com: https://www.homes.com/real-estate-agents/andi-dyer Google Business Profile: https://g.page/andi-dyer-real-estate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndiDyerRealEstate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andi.dyer
By Andi Dyer January 30, 2026
Emotional attachment is one of the least discussed but most powerful factors in a home sale. It influences pricing, reactions to feedback, and how sellers experience the process overall. Acknowledging that attachment exists doesn’t weaken your position. It strengthens it. Why emotional attachment is normal Homes are not just assets. They’re places where life happened. Expecting to feel neutral about selling is unrealistic, especially for longtime homeowners. The challenge isn’t attachment itself. It’s letting attachment quietly drive decisions without awareness. How attachment can affect decisions Emotionally attached sellers may resist market feedback, overreact to buyer comments, or feel personally criticized during inspections. These reactions are understandable but can create unnecessary friction. Recognizing these patterns early helps keep decisions grounded. Separating meaning from strategy One helpful approach is separating what the home means to you from how buyers will evaluate it. Buyers are comparing options. They’re not evaluating your memories or care. Holding both truths at once allows you to honor the past without letting it complicate the present. A calmer way to move forward Instead of trying to suppress emotion, it helps to plan around it. Build in time, support, and space for decisions. When emotional reality is acknowledged, selling often feels less draining and more intentional. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Andi Dyer is a Bellingham-based real estate broker with RE/MAX Whatcom County, specializing in helping longtime homeowners and sellers make confident, well-informed decisions. With a calm, data-driven approach and strong negotiation expertise, Andi focuses on protecting equity, reducing stress, and guiding sellers through the process with clarity and care. 📍 Serving Bellingham and all of Whatcom County 📞 Call or text: 360 • 734 • 6479 📧 Email: andi [at] andidyer [dot] com If you want guidance that respects both the emotional and practical sides of selling, start here: 👉 Start with a low-pressure home value and seller planning tool here: https://www.andidyerrealestate.com/seller/valuation/ Zillow: https://www.zillow.com/profile/AndiDyer Realtor.com: https://www.realtor.com/realestateagents/andi-dyer Homes.com: https://www.homes.com/real-estate-agents/andi-dyer Google Business Profile: https://g.page/andi-dyer-real-estate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndiDyerRealEstate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andi.dyer
By Andi Dyer January 29, 2026
Selling a home you’ve lived in for decades feels different than selling a place you bought a few years ago. The process may look similar on paper, but emotionally and practically, it often isn’t. Understanding those differences can make the experience feel more manageable and less overwhelming. Why longtime homes carry more complexity Longtime homes hold memories, routines, and personal history. Decisions about repairs, pricing, and timing can feel more personal because the home has been part of your identity for so long. There’s also often more accumulated “stuff,” deferred decisions, and uncertainty about where things should go next. How preparation tends to take longer Preparing a longtime home often involves more sorting, downsizing, and decision-making. This isn’t a sign of procrastination. It’s a natural part of closing one chapter and opening another. Giving yourself enough time for this stage reduces stress later. Why pricing can feel harder Longtime homeowners sometimes anchor to past values or to what the home “should” be worth based on effort and care. Buyers, however, evaluate homes based on current alternatives. Bridging that gap requires context, not pressure. A planning-forward reframe Instead of viewing the sale as a single event, it can help to see it as a transition process. The transaction is just one piece. When preparation, pricing, and timing are aligned with your goals, selling a longtime home can feel respectful rather than rushed. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Andi Dyer is a Bellingham-based real estate broker with RE/MAX Whatcom County, specializing in helping longtime homeowners and sellers make confident, well-informed decisions. With a calm, data-driven approach and strong negotiation expertise, Andi focuses on protecting equity, reducing stress, and guiding sellers through the process with clarity and care. 📍 Serving Bellingham and all of Whatcom County 📞 Call or text: 360 • 734 • 6479 📧 Email: andi [at] andidyer [dot] com If you’re considering selling a home you’ve lived in for many years and want to approach it thoughtfully, start here: 👉 Start with a low-pressure home value and seller planning tool here: https://www.andidyerrealestate.com/seller/valuation/ Zillow: https://www.zillow.com/profile/AndiDyer Realtor.com: https://www.realtor.com/realestateagents/andi-dyer Homes.com: https://www.homes.com/real-estate-agents/andi-dyer Google Business Profile: https://g.page/andi-dyer-real-estate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndiDyerRealEstate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andi.dyer
By Andi Dyer January 28, 2026
For many longtime homeowners, selling a home is closely tied to retirement planning, even if retirement is still a few years away. The decision often isn’t just about market conditions. It’s about lifestyle, income, taxes, and how much flexibility you want in the next chapter. Selling at the “right” time is less about predicting the market and more about aligning the sale with your broader plan. Why this decision feels especially heavy Homes often represent the largest store of equity a homeowner has. When retirement enters the conversation, that equity starts to feel less theoretical and more consequential. Many sellers worry about selling too early and missing appreciation, or selling too late and feeling rushed. That tension is normal and deserves a thoughtful approach rather than a reactive one. How timing affects financial flexibility Selling before retirement can create options. It may reduce housing costs, eliminate maintenance responsibilities, or free up equity that can be repositioned conservatively. Selling after retirement can also make sense, especially if staying put supports lifestyle or community ties. The trade-off is often carrying higher housing costs longer. Neither choice is inherently better. The right timing depends on income stability, health, housing preferences, and how much certainty you want. Why the market is only one variable Market conditions matter, but they’re only one part of the equation. Tax considerations, mortgage balance, and future housing plans often have a bigger impact on outcomes than short-term price fluctuations. This is why planning ahead matters. Waiting until a life change forces a decision can limit options. A planning-forward reframe Instead of asking, “Is now the best time to sell?” try asking: “What timing gives me the most flexibility and peace of mind?” That question tends to lead to clearer, calmer decisions. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Andi Dyer is a Bellingham-based real estate broker with RE/MAX Whatcom County, specializing in helping longtime homeowners and sellers make confident, well-informed decisions. With a calm, data-driven approach and strong negotiation expertise, Andi focuses on protecting equity, reducing stress, and guiding sellers through the process with clarity and care. 📍 Serving Bellingham and all of Whatcom County 📞 Call or text: 360 • 734 • 6479 📧 Email: andi [at] andidyer [dot] com If you’re thinking about how a future sale fits into your long-term plans, start here: 👉 Start with a low-pressure home value and seller planning tool here: https://www.andidyerrealestate.com/seller/valuation/ Zillow: https://www.zillow.com/profile/AndiDyer Realtor.com: https://www.realtor.com/realestateagents/andi-dyer Homes.com: https://www.homes.com/real-estate-agents/andi-dyer Google Business Profile: https://g.page/andi-dyer-real-estate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndiDyerRealEstate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andi.dyer
By Andi Dyer January 27, 2026
Taking a home off the market can feel like admitting defeat, but in some situations it’s a strategic and thoughtful decision. Not every pause means something went wrong. The important thing is understanding why a home might come off the market and what that choice accomplishes. Why sellers consider pausing a listing Common reasons include needing more time for repairs, reevaluating pricing, addressing feedback, or reassessing life plans. Sometimes the timing simply isn’t right. A pause can also make sense if the market response indicates misalignment that requires more than a small adjustment. How taking a home off the market can help Removing a listing can reset momentum. It gives sellers space to make changes without the pressure of public days-on-market tracking. When a home is relisted later with improved preparation or positioning, buyers often respond more positively. When taking it off the market can hurt Pausing without a plan can create confusion. If a home comes back unchanged, buyers may still have the same concerns. The value of a pause lies in what’s done during that time. A planning-forward way to decide Instead of asking, “Should I pull it?” ask: “What would need to change for this home to feel like a confident listing?” That question keeps the decision intentional. Reframing the choice Pausing a listing isn’t failure. It’s information. When used strategically, it can protect equity and create a better experience overall. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Andi Dyer is a Bellingham-based real estate broker with RE/MAX Whatcom County, specializing in helping longtime homeowners and sellers make confident, well-informed decisions. With a calm, data-driven approach and strong negotiation expertise, Andi focuses on protecting equity, reducing stress, and guiding sellers through the process with clarity and care. 📍 Serving Bellingham and all of Whatcom County 📞 Call or text: 360 • 734 • 6479 📧 Email: andi [at] andidyer [dot] com If you’re wondering whether a pause would help or hurt your situation, start here: 👉 Start with a low-pressure home value and seller planning tool here: https://www.andidyerrealestate.com/seller/valuation/ Zillow: https://www.zillow.com/profile/AndiDyer Realtor.com: https://www.realtor.com/realestateagents/andi-dyer Homes.com: https://www.homes.com/real-estate-agents/andi-dyer Google Business Profile: https://g.page/andi-dyer-real-estate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndiDyerRealEstate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andi.dyer
By Andi Dyer January 22, 2026
Getting multiple offers sounds like the ideal scenario, but for many sellers it quickly becomes stressful. Instead of clarity, there’s fear of choosing the “wrong” one. The pressure can feel especially heavy when offers differ not just in price, but in terms, timing, and conditions. The most important thing to understand is this: the best offer is the one that aligns with your priorities and has the highest likelihood of closing smoothly , not necessarily the highest number on the page. Why multiple offers create anxiety instead of relief When several offers arrive at once, sellers often feel rushed to decide. There’s a fear of missing out on more money, or of upsetting someone by not choosing their offer. This emotional pressure can make it harder to see the situation clearly. What helps is remembering that multiple offers mean you have leverage and options. You don’t need to rush. You need to evaluate thoughtfully. Why price alone doesn’t tell the full story Two offers at the same price can carry very different levels of risk. Financing type, down payment size, inspection contingencies, appraisal risk, and closing timelines all affect how likely a deal is to make it to the finish line. A slightly lower offer with fewer contingencies and a flexible timeline can often produce a better overall outcome than a higher offer that feels fragile or complicated. Understanding risk versus reward Every offer has a risk profile. Some buyers are highly qualified and prepared. Others are stretching to make the purchase work. Neither is inherently wrong, but they require different expectations. Evaluating offers through a risk-and-reward lens helps remove emotion. The question becomes: “Which offer gives me the outcome I want with the least uncertainty?” Why timing and terms matter more than sellers expect Closing timelines affect moving plans, temporary housing, and stress levels. An offer that aligns with your desired timeline can be just as valuable as a higher price that creates pressure. Terms also matter. Fewer contingencies often mean fewer renegotiations later. A calmer way to choose Instead of asking, “Which offer is best?” try asking: “Which offer lets me move forward feeling confident and in control?” That mindset usually leads to fewer regrets and a smoother transaction. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Andi Dyer is a Bellingham-based real estate broker with RE/MAX Whatcom County, specializing in helping longtime homeowners and sellers make confident, well-informed decisions. With a calm, data-driven approach and strong negotiation expertise, Andi focuses on protecting equity, reducing stress, and guiding sellers through the process with clarity and care. 📍 Serving Bellingham and all of Whatcom County 📞 Call or text: 360 • 734 • 6479 📧 Email: andi [at] andidyer [dot] com If you want help evaluating offers and understanding the trade-offs clearly, start here: 👉 Start with a low-pressure home value and seller planning tool here: https://www.andidyerrealestate.com/seller/valuation/ Zillow: https://www.zillow.com/profile/AndiDyer Realtor.com: https://www.realtor.com/realestateagents/andi-dyer Homes.com: https://www.homes.com/real-estate-agents/andi-dyer Google Business Profile: https://g.page/andi-dyer-real-estate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndiDyerRealEstate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andi.dyer
By Andi Dyer January 21, 2026
Most delayed home sales aren’t caused by dramatic problems. They’re usually slowed down by small issues that compound over time. Understanding what commonly causes delays can help sellers avoid unnecessary frustration. The good news is that many delays are preventable with early planning and realistic expectations . Common sources of delay Pricing misalignment is one of the most frequent causes. When price and buyer expectations don’t match, showings slow and momentum stalls. Inspection surprises can also cause delays, especially when sellers haven’t anticipated how buyers might respond. Financing issues, appraisal timing, and incomplete paperwork can add days or weeks if not addressed promptly. None of these issues mean the sale is failing. They mean coordination is needed. Why preparation reduces delays Homes that are prepared thoughtfully tend to move through the process more smoothly. Sellers who understand their home’s condition, pricing strategy, and next steps are better equipped to respond quickly when questions arise. Responsiveness matters. Clear communication keeps timelines on track. When delays are part of the plan Not every seller needs speed. Some are coordinating a move, waiting on a purchase, or planning around life events. In those cases, a longer timeline may be intentional and appropriate. The issue is not delay itself. It’s delay without a plan. A planning-forward reframe Instead of worrying about what might go wrong, focus on what you can control. Preparation, clarity, and flexibility go a long way toward keeping a sale on track. When expectations are aligned early, delays become manageable rather than stressful. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Andi Dyer is a Bellingham-based real estate broker with RE/MAX Whatcom County, specializing in helping longtime homeowners and sellers make confident, well-informed decisions. With a calm, data-driven approach and strong negotiation expertise, Andi focuses on protecting equity, reducing stress, and guiding sellers through the process with clarity and care. 📍 Serving Bellingham and all of Whatcom County 📞 Call or text: 360 • 734 • 6479 📧 Email: andi [at] andidyer [dot] com If you want to reduce the chance of delays and plan a smoother sale, start here: 👉 Start with a low-pressure home value and seller planning tool here: https://www.andidyerrealestate.com/seller/valuation/ Zillow: https://www.zillow.com/profile/AndiDyer Realtor.com: https://www.realtor.com/realestateagents/andi-dyer Homes.com: https://www.homes.com/real-estate-agents/andi-dyer Google Business Profile: https://g.page/andi-dyer-real-estate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndiDyerRealEstate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andi,dyer
By Andi Dyer January 20, 2026
Appraisals often create anxiety because they feel outside a seller’s control. Once a price is agreed upon, many sellers assume the deal is essentially done, only to worry when the appraisal is ordered. The truth is that most appraisals come in as expected , but understanding how they work and what influences them can reduce stress and help you respond calmly if questions arise. What an appraisal actually does An appraisal is performed for the lender, not the buyer or the seller. Its purpose is to confirm that the home’s value supports the loan amount. Appraisers look at recent comparable sales, market trends, and the home’s condition. They are not trying to renegotiate the deal. They are assessing risk. Why appraisals feel tense in balanced markets In fast-moving markets, prices can rise faster than comparable sales. In balanced markets, buyers and sellers often meet in the middle, which usually aligns well with appraisals. Tension tends to arise when a home is priced at the very top of its range or when there are few recent comparable sales. That doesn’t mean the deal will fail. It means expectations need to be managed. What happens if an appraisal comes in low A low appraisal doesn’t automatically end a transaction. Often, there are options: The buyer may bring in additional funds The seller and buyer may renegotiate The parties may meet somewhere in between The right response depends on the strength of the offer, the buyer’s financing, and the seller’s goals. How preparation helps even here Clear pricing, strong presentation, and accurate documentation of improvements can all support a smoother appraisal process. While sellers can’t control the outcome, preparation reduces surprises. A calmer way to approach appraisals Instead of fearing the appraisal, it helps to view it as another checkpoint in the process. When pricing and strategy were sound from the beginning, appraisals tend to align. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Andi Dyer is a Bellingham-based real estate broker with RE/MAX Whatcom County, specializing in helping longtime homeowners and sellers make confident, well-informed decisions. With a calm, data-driven approach and strong negotiation expertise, Andi focuses on protecting equity, reducing stress, and guiding sellers through the process with clarity and care. 📍 Serving Bellingham and all of Whatcom County 📞 Call or text: 360 • 734 • 6479 📧 Email: andi [at] andidyer [dot] com If appraisal questions are part of what’s causing hesitation, start here: 👉 Start with a low-pressure home value and seller planning tool here: https://www.andidyerrealestate.com/seller/valuation/ Zillow: https://www.zillow.com/profile/AndiDyer Realtor.com: https://www.realtor.com/realestateagents/andi-dyer Homes.com: https://www.homes.com/real-estate-agents/andi-dyer Google Business Profile: https://g.page/andi-dyer-real-estate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndiDyerRealEstate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andi.dyer
By Andi Dyer January 19, 2026
Few words make sellers more uncomfortable than “price adjustment.” It often feels like a failure, or a signal that something went wrong. In reality, price adjustments are a normal and sometimes strategic part of selling in a balanced market like Bellingham’s. The key is understanding when an adjustment helps restore leverage and when it quietly gives it away . A thoughtful adjustment can reignite interest. A reactive one can undermine confidence. Why price adjustments feel so emotional A home price isn’t just a number. It’s tied to expectations, memories, and often a sense of worth. When a home doesn’t receive the response a seller hoped for, it’s easy to take that personally. But the market’s response isn’t a judgment. It’s information. Buyers are constantly comparing options. If a home isn’t getting traction, it usually means the price isn’t aligned with how buyers are currently perceiving value relative to alternatives. When an adjustment actually helps Price adjustments are most effective when they are: Made early, before a listing feels “stale” Large enough to reposition the home into a new buyer search bracket Paired with a renewed marketing push and clear communication Early adjustments often reset momentum. They can bring the home in front of buyers who hadn’t previously considered it and create a sense of renewed relevance. When adjustments quietly hurt leverage Small, incremental reductions spread out over time often do more harm than good. Buyers tend to interpret repeated minor reductions as hesitation or uncertainty, which can encourage aggressive negotiation. Adjustments made after a long period on market can also signal increased flexibility, even if the seller doesn’t intend that. This is why timing and intent matter more than the adjustment itself. Using feedback instead of fear The most productive way to approach pricing decisions is through feedback. Are buyers commenting on value? Are they comparing the home to others at a lower price point? Are showings happening but not converting? Those signals are more reliable than headlines or averages. A planning-forward reframe Instead of viewing a price adjustment as “giving in,” it’s often more accurate to see it as realigning with current buyer behavior . When done intentionally, adjustments can restore confidence, reduce time on market, and lead to cleaner negotiations. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Andi Dyer is a Bellingham-based real estate broker with RE/MAX Whatcom County, specializing in helping longtime homeowners and sellers make confident, well-informed decisions. With a calm, data-driven approach and strong negotiation expertise, Andi focuses on protecting equity, reducing stress, and guiding sellers through the process with clarity and care. 📍 Serving Bellingham and all of Whatcom County 📞 Call or text: 360 • 734 • 6479 📧 Email: andi [at] andidyer [dot] com If you’re wondering whether an adjustment would help or hurt your sale, start here: 👉 Start with a low-pressure home value and seller planning tool here: https://www.andidyerrealestate.com/seller/valuation/ Zillow: https://www.zillow.com/profile/AndiDyer Realtor.com: https://www.realtor.com/realestateagents/andi-dyer Homes.com: https://www.homes.com/real-estate-agents/andi-dyer Google Business Profile: https://g.page/andi-dyer-real-estate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndiDyerRealEstate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andi.dyer
By Andi Dyer January 18, 2026
Receiving multiple offers can feel exciting and overwhelming at the same time. Sellers often worry about choosing the “wrong” one, even when the numbers look good. The most important thing to remember is that the strongest offer is not always the highest price. Evaluating offers holistically leads to smoother closings and fewer surprises. Why price alone doesn’t tell the whole story Two offers with the same price can carry very different levels of risk. Financing type, contingencies, timelines, and flexibility all influence how likely an offer is to close successfully. A slightly lower offer with strong terms can often lead to a better overall outcome than a higher offer that feels fragile. Understanding contingencies and risk Contingencies give buyers protection, but they also introduce uncertainty for sellers. Inspection timelines, appraisal conditions, and financing terms all affect risk. Understanding which contingencies are standard and which ones carry more uncertainty helps sellers choose confidently. Why timelines matter more than sellers expect Closing timelines can affect moving plans, temporary housing, and stress levels. An offer that aligns with your desired timeline may be worth more than one that creates pressure. Evaluating offers through a planning lens Instead of asking, “Which offer is best?” try asking: “Which offer supports the outcome I want with the least stress?” That lens helps remove emotion and clarify decisions. A calmer way to choose You don’t have to rush. Multiple offers create options. Taking a moment to evaluate the full picture usually leads to better decisions and fewer regrets. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Andi Dyer is a Bellingham-based real estate broker with RE/MAX Whatcom County, specializing in helping longtime homeowners and sellers make confident, well-informed decisions. With a calm, data-driven approach and strong negotiation expertise, Andi focuses on protecting equity, reducing stress, and guiding sellers through the process with clarity and care. 📍 Serving Bellingham and all of Whatcom County 📞 Call or text: 360 • 734 • 6479 📧 Email: andi [at] andidyer [dot] com If you want help evaluating offers and understanding the trade-offs clearly, start here: 👉 Start with a low-pressure home value and seller planning tool here: https://www.andidyerrealestate.com/seller/valuation/ Zillow: https://www.zillow.com/profile/AndiDyer Realtor.com: https://www.realtor.com/realestateagents/andi-dyer Homes.com: https://www.homes.com/real-estate-agents/andi-dyer Google Business Profile: https://g.page/andi-dyer-real-estate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndiDyerRealEstate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andi.dyer
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