What You Need to Know About Researching Home Prices
Andi • November 3, 2020
There are a lot of home pricing resources out there, and some are far better than others.
When it’s time to sell your house, you may be feeling a little anxious. A chapter of your life is closing. There’s a lot of money on the table. You may be thinking “Is my house priced too high?” “Too low?” “Am I leaving too much money on the table?” These are big questions.
Luckily, you have a few resources at your disposal to figure out where your house stands among the crowd: a listing agent’s expertise and guidance, plus online property sites to get insight into the market.
So take a deep breath. Then do your homework. The more you know, the more confident you’ll be when it’s time to make those big decisions.
Turn to Local Experts — Because They Really Know Their Stuff
The good news: Local market info is freely available online, so you, the seller, can get a sense of what your house is worth.
The bad news: Local market info is freely available online, so most buyers will also have a general idea of what they think your home is worth.
When pricing your house, a listing agent has your back in a way an online property listing site just can’t. An agent:
- Has real world experience in your community.
- Knows the nuances of your neighborhood’s micro-market.
- Can expertly assess how your home compares to similar ones recently sold in your area.
- Can tour your property to determine, inside and out, where your house fits in the real estate landscape.
A website will do none of the above.
An agent will, yes, consider online market data to help you set the price of your home. But he or she will also rely on first-hand knowledge about your home’s unique perks (and quirks), as well as about the neighborhood, to better inform your listing price.
He or she can also recommend ways to market your house (Instagram-able photos, blog-worthy descriptions, etc.), pro stagers who can set your home up to dazzle buyers, and inspectors and contractors who can make any needed repairs.
That being said, you’ll want to have your own sense of what your house is worth too. As invaluable as a listing agent is to your selling journey, being the seller means you’re also the final decision maker.
So keep your laptop out. We’re going to do a little research.
Search Online Property Sites — Because They’ll Give IRL Experience Some Context
Millennials are the largest group of home buyers today, according to a NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF REALTORS®’ (NAR) report , and they overwhelmingly start their buying journey — where else? — online.
The internet is there for you as well — to an extent — when you’re ready to sell your home.
Online property sites like realtor.com® can give you a sense of local real estate trends, including your city’s median listing price, median closing price, and the average price per square foot. As you search, there are a couple important things to do:
The Fallacy of Upgrades
Not all home upgrades will earn you more money. Your agent may tell you, for instance, that your chef-quality kitchen remodel is not in keeping with the neighborhood. In that case, you may not recoup those costs.
- Pay attention to houses in your area that are similar to your own in terms of size, attributes, and location. When you work with a listing agent to price your home, these houses will provide the main criteria for setting the amount.
- Take notes about what makes your house different from the pack. As you look at online listings, think carefully about why your house is worth more or less than similar houses in your community. The better you’re able to articulate these nuances to your listing agent, the better prepared the agent will be to list your home at an accurate and competitive price.
Having this information can also give you confidence in the price your agent ultimately recommends — you’ll know what’s standard for the market, and how the price determined for your house lines up. If there are discrepancies, talk to your agent about how he or she arrived at their price. Unlike the internet, he or she can give you a complete picture of what your home’s price should be and why.
Also, as you search, be aware that not all real estate listing sites are created equal. Realtor.com® aggregates listings from Multiple Listing Services (MLS) around the country, which provides the most up-to-the-minute data about home sales. (By the way, realtor.com® is the official listing site of NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF REALTORS ® , which operates HouseLogic.com.) Most of ‘for sale’ listings at realtor.com®, for example, are refreshed every 15 minutes — so what you see is likely what you get. Another big property listing site (and brokerage), Redfin, also aggregates data from MLSs.
Trulia and Zillow, on the other hand, collect their listing information from a variety of sources, and may not always be as up to date as the MLS.
The takeaway: Seller, beware. Consider your online source. Take what you’ve learned from online listings to your agent to talk about what’s really best for you and your home.
Try Online Price Calculators — With Caveats
As long as you’re on the internet, you might decide to try an online home price calculator. With these calculators, property sites use sale prices near you (and overall market data) to approximately predict your own home’s value.
You’ll find an online home price calculator at almost any property site, and they all work a little differently. Realtor.com®’s home estimator tool , for instance, factors in your home’s square footage and recent home sales in your area to calculate an approximate recommended sale price.
Plug your ZIP code or address into a site to see:
- Homes for sale in your community, which can give you a sense of the overall market
- Estimated prices of similar homes in your area, which can provide a general range of home prices in your area
- Property descriptions and photos of local homes for sale, which can give you a feel for how other homes are being marketed to buyers (and how you can do even better)
Info like this is good to know — particularly because most buyers will see similar numbers when they to online research, too — but you have to take what online home price calculators tell you with a grain of salt .
Online price calculators can be useful as a reference, but they have limitations in terms of their scope (they can’t read nuances of the market like a human can), as well as their reliability. Some, including Zillow’s Zestimate tool, which estimates market value, have been challenged by some users for inaccuracy.
Your listing agent’s knowledge and expertise are more reliable measures for determining your own home’s price — he or she knows the subtleties of your home, neighborhood, and real estate market inside and out. Before you and your agent can confer, don’t get your heart set on a sale price.
Speaking of: The sale price is one thing. Potential profit is another.
How much money you’ll pocket after selling your home depends on a number of factors, including the amount of debt you still owe on a current mortgage, property taxes, and your real estate agent’s commission.
Again: These are only estimates. A lot of variables are at play between the time you set a sale price and the time you close. The home will be appraised and inspected, and those results could affect your out-of-pocket costs or the sale price. And you’ll likely be negotiating the price with buyers. So use a net proceeds calculator with some care.
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Once people start talking about selling, advice appears from everywhere. Friends. Neighbors. Family. Online forums. Well-meaning people who sold years ago. Everyone seems confident, and much of the advice contradicts itself. For sellers, this flood of opinions can create paralysis rather than clarity. Why advice feels overwhelming during a sale Selling a home is high-stakes, so the brain looks for certainty. When advice conflicts, it creates cognitive overload. Sellers may delay decisions or second-guess themselves constantly. This isn’t because they’re indecisive. It’s because too many voices are competing at once. Why advice is rarely transferable Most advice is context-specific. What worked for one person may not apply to a different neighborhood, price point, or market cycle. Advice also ages quickly in real estate. Well-intentioned guidance can still be misaligned with your situation. How to filter advice productively One useful filter is asking whether the advice accounts for: Current local market conditions Your specific goals and timeline Your tolerance for stress and uncertainty Advice that ignores these factors is often incomplete. The value of a single guiding framework Rather than collecting opinions, it helps to work from a consistent framework. When decisions are anchored to clear priorities, external advice becomes input rather than pressure. That framework creates steadiness even when opinions differ. A planning-forward reframe Instead of asking, “Who’s right?” ask: “Which advice aligns with how I want this process to feel?” That question often quiets the noise. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Andi Dyer is a Bellingham-based real estate broker with RE/MAX Whatcom County, specializing in helping longtime homeowners and sellers make confident, well-informed decisions. With a calm, data-driven approach and strong negotiation expertise, Andi focuses on protecting equity, reducing stress, and guiding sellers through the process with clarity and care. 📍 Serving Bellingham and all of Whatcom County 📞 Call or text: 360 • 734 • 6479 📧 Email: andi [at] andidyer [dot] com If outside opinions are making it harder to decide, clarity can start here: 👉 Start with a low-pressure home value and seller planning tool here: https://www.andidyerrealestate.com/seller/valuation/ Zillow: https://www.zillow.com/profile/AndiDyer Rea l tor.com: https://www.realtor.com/realestateagents/andi-dyer Homes.com: https://www.homes.com/real-estate-agents/andi-dyer Google Business Profile: https://g.page/andi-dyer-real-estate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndiDyerRealEstate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andi.dyer
Market uncertainty tends to amplify stress. Headlines fluctuate. Predictions conflict. Sellers may worry that every decision could be the “wrong” one. The truth is that uncertainty is not a temporary glitch in real estate. It’s a permanent feature. Learning how to stay grounded within it is what creates confidence. Why uncertainty feels especially uncomfortable during selling Selling requires action under imperfect information. That goes against the brain’s preference for certainty. When the market feels unstable, sellers may delay decisions, constantly revise plans, or feel pressure to act quickly before conditions change again. Why waiting for certainty rarely works Certainty usually arrives only in hindsight. Waiting for perfect clarity often means waiting indefinitely. What helps more than certainty is having a flexible plan that can adapt as conditions shift. How grounded sellers approach uncertainty Grounded sellers focus on what they can control: preparation, pricing alignment, communication, and pacing. They accept that not every variable can be predicted. This mindset reduces anxiety and improves decision quality. The role of values in uncertain markets When decisions are aligned with personal values rather than predictions, outcomes tend to feel steadier even if the market changes. Knowing why you’re selling matters more than knowing exactly what will happen next. A planning-forward reframe Instead of asking, “Is this the right time?” try asking: “What choice allows me to move forward with the most stability?” That question anchors decisions even when answers are imperfect. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Andi Dyer is a Bellingham-based real estate broker with RE/MAX Whatcom County, specializing in helping longtime homeowners and sellers make confident, well-informed decisions. With a calm, data-driven approach and strong negotiation expertise, Andi focuses on protecting equity, reducing stress, and guiding sellers through the process with clarity and care. 📍 Serving Bellingham and all of Whatcom County 📞 Call or text: 360 • 734 • 6479 📧 Email: andi [at] andidyer [dot] com If uncertainty is making it hard to know your next step, clarity can start with information: 👉 Start with a low-pressure home value and seller planning tool here: https://www.andidyerrealestate.com/seller/valuation/ Zillow: https://www.zillow.com/profile/AndiDyer Rea l tor.com: https://www.realtor.com/realestateagents/andi-dyer Homes.com: https://www.homes.com/real-estate-agents/andi-dyer Google Business Profile: https://g.page/andi-dyer-real-estate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndiDyerRealEstate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andi.dyer
Many sellers worry they’ll pick the “wrong” moment to sell. They watch headlines, track interest rates, and wait for a signal that says now is the right time. That pressure can quietly stall decisions for months or even years. The truth most sellers eventually discover is that market timing matters far less than life timing. Why market timing feels so important Market timing promises control. If you sell at the peak, you win. If you miss it, you feel like you failed. This framing turns selling into a test rather than a transition. But real estate markets are only fully clear in hindsight. Most people who “timed it perfectly” didn’t know they were doing so at the time. What life timing actually accounts for Life timing considers things the market can’t measure: Energy and capacity Health and mobility Family needs Desire for simplicity Readiness for change These factors often matter more to long-term satisfaction than a marginal price difference. Why waiting for the perfect moment creates pressure When sellers delay waiting for the perfect market, they often feel rushed later. Life changes anyway. Maintenance continues. Decisions become compressed. Selling earlier, with intention, often creates more options than selling later under pressure. How grounded sellers think about timing Grounded sellers don’t try to predict the market. They assess whether selling now would make life easier, not harder. When that answer is yes, the decision tends to hold up well over time. A planning-forward reframe Instead of asking, “Is this the best market?” try asking: “Would selling now support the way I want to live over the next few years?” That question usually brings more clarity than charts ever will. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Andi Dyer is a Bellingham-based real estate broker with RE/MAX Whatcom County, specializing in helping longtime homeowners and sellers make confident, well-informed decisions. With a calm, data-driven approach and strong negotiation expertise, Andi focuses on protecting equity, reducing stress, and guiding sellers through the process with clarity and care. 📍 Serving Bellingham and all of Whatcom County 📞 Call or text: 360 • 734 • 6479 📧 Email: andi [at] andidyer [dot] com If you’re trying to weigh market conditions against personal readiness, a planning conversation can help: 👉 Start with a low-pressure home value and seller planning tool here: https://www.andidyerrealestate.com/seller/valuation/ Zillow: https://www.zillow.com/profile/AndiDyer Realtor.com: https://www.realtor.com/realestateagents/andi-dyer Homes.com: https://www.homes.com/real-estate-agents/andi-dyer Google Business Profile: https://g.page/andi-dyer-real-estate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndiDyerRealEstate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andi.dyer
Regret is one of the strongest forces shaping seller decisions, even though it’s rarely discussed openly. People worry about selling too early, selling too late, selling for the “wrong” price, or missing out on something better. The fear of regret often keeps people stuck, not because they don’t want to move, but because they want to avoid feeling foolish later. Why regret feels so powerful in real estate Homes carry high stakes. They’re financial assets, emotional anchors, and symbols of stability all at once. That combination makes decisions feel permanent, even when they’re not. Regret thrives in uncertainty. When outcomes are unknown, the mind fills in worst-case scenarios. The two kinds of regret sellers worry about Most sellers are caught between two fears: Regret of action: “What if I sell and wish I hadn’t?” Regret of inaction: “What if I wait and wish I’d sold earlier?” Trying to eliminate regret entirely usually leads to paralysis. Why clarity reduces regret more than timing Regret tends to be lower when decisions are made with intention and information, even if the outcome isn’t perfect. Sellers who understand their reasons, explored alternatives, and chose a path aligned with their values tend to feel steadier afterward. Sellers who rushed or avoided the decision often replay it more. How to work with regret instead of against it Instead of asking how to avoid regret, it can help to ask: Which decision would I feel at peace explaining to myself later? What choice aligns with how I want this chapter to close? Those questions anchor decisions in meaning rather than prediction. A planning-forward reframe There is no version of selling that removes all uncertainty. But there are versions that feel honest, thoughtful, and grounded. When you focus on clarity over certainty, regret tends to lose its grip. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Andi Dyer is a Bellingham-based real estate broker with RE/MAX Whatcom County, specializing in helping longtime homeowners and sellers make confident, well-informed decisions. With a calm, data-driven approach and strong negotiation expertise, Andi focuses on protecting equity, reducing stress, and guiding sellers through the process with clarity and care. 📍 Serving Bellingham and all of Whatcom County 📞 Call or text: 360 • 734 • 6479 📧 Email: andi [at] andidyer [dot] com If fear of making the wrong move is what’s holding you back, starting with clarity often helps: 👉 Start with a low-pressure home value and seller planning tool here: https://www.andidyerrealestate.com/seller/valuation/ Zillow: https://www.zillow.com/profile/AndiDyer Re a ltor.com: https://www.realtor.com/realestateagents/andi-dyer Homes.com: https://www.homes.com/real-estate-agents/andi-dyer Google Business Profile: https://g.page/andi-dyer-real-estate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndiDyerRealEstate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andi.dyer
“I’m not ready” is one of the most common things sellers say. It’s also one of the least specific. Often, it doesn’t mean a lack of desire to sell. It means something else hasn’t been resolved yet. Understanding what “not ready” really points to can help sellers move forward without feeling rushed. The difference between readiness and clarity Readiness implies action. Clarity comes first. Many sellers aren’t lacking readiness. They’re lacking clarity about timing, finances, logistics, or emotional readiness for change. Until those pieces are understood, action feels premature. Common reasons sellers feel stuck Some sellers worry about where they’ll go next. Others worry about whether selling will actually simplify life or just exchange one set of problems for another. For longtime homeowners, there’s often an added layer of attachment to place, neighbors, and identity. None of these concerns are obstacles. They’re signals that planning needs to be more thoughtful, not faster. Why pressure backfires External pressure, from the market or from well-meaning friends, often makes sellers dig in rather than move forward. Pressure creates resistance. Clarity creates momentum. This is why the most productive conversations aren’t about convincing someone to sell. They’re about helping someone understand their options. How readiness tends to arrive Readiness usually shows up quietly, after enough questions have been answered. Sellers suddenly feel less reactive and more grounded. The decision stops feeling heavy. That shift rarely comes from waiting alone. It comes from information that removes uncertainty. How to Evaluate an Offer Beyond the Price When an offer arrives, most sellers look at the price first. That’s natural. But price alone rarely tells the full story of how strong an offer actually is. Some of the most stressful transactions happen when sellers accept the highest number without understanding the structure underneath it. Why price can be misleading A high price paired with fragile terms can be riskier than a slightly lower price with solid structure. Financing type, contingencies, timelines, and buyer flexibility all affect how likely the deal is to close cleanly. Price is a headline. Terms are the substance. What sellers should look at next After price, sellers should examine how the buyer is financing the purchase, how many contingencies exist, and how tight the timelines are. A well-qualified buyer with reasonable contingencies often represents a smoother path forward than an aggressive offer with multiple escape routes. The goal isn’t to eliminate risk entirely. It’s to choose which risks you’re comfortable carrying. Why certainty often has real value Certainty reduces stress. It also reduces the chance of renegotiation later. Sellers who prioritize certainty often find the process more predictable, even if the final number isn’t the absolute maximum possible. Predictability is undervalued until something goes wrong. How experience helps decode offers Understanding how offers typically play out over time matters more than reading them at face value. Some terms look harmless early on but become leverage points later. Others seem restrictive but rarely cause issues. This is where context and experience protect outcomes. A planning-forward reframe Instead of asking, “Which offer is highest?” ask: “Which offer gives me the best balance of value, certainty, and control?” That question leads to calmer decisions and cleaner closings. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Andi Dyer is a Bellingham-based real estate broker with RE/MAX Whatcom County, specializing in helping longtime homeowners and sellers make confident, well-informed decisions. With a calm, data-driven approach and strong negotiation expertise, Andi focuses on protecting equity, reducing stress, and guiding sellers through the process with clarity and care. 📍 Serving Bellingham and all of Whatcom County 📞 Call or text: 360 • 734 • 6479 📧 Email: andi [at] andidyer [dot] com If you want help evaluating offers with more than just the price in mind, start here: 👉 Start with a low-pressure home value and seller planning tool here: https://www.andidyerrealestate.com/seller/valuation/ Zillow: https://www.zillow.com/profile/AndiDyer Realtor.com: https://www.realtor.com/realestateagents/andi-dyer Homes.com: https://www.homes.com/real-estate-agents/andi-dyer Google Business Profile: https://g.page/andi-dyer-real-estate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndiDyerRealEstate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andi.dyer
This is a question many sellers don’t ask out loud, but it quietly shapes everything else. People often focus on market timing, interest rates, or pricing strategy, when the real hesitation lives somewhere else entirely. You might be financially ready. You might even be logically ready. But emotional readiness is different, and ignoring it can make an otherwise solid plan feel exhausting or rushed. Why this question is harder than it sounds Selling a home isn’t just a transaction. It’s a transition. Even when the move is positive, it often involves letting go of routines, memories, and a sense of identity tied to a place. That’s why some sellers feel unsettled even when the numbers work. They may second-guess decisions, feel defensive about feedback, or rush to resolve uncertainty just to “get it over with.” Those reactions aren’t signs that you shouldn’t sell. They’re signs that the emotional side of the decision hasn’t had time to catch up with the practical side. Emotional readiness doesn’t mean feeling certain A common misconception is that being ready means feeling confident and decisive all the time. In reality, many sellers feel a mix of relief, sadness, excitement, and doubt all at once. Emotional readiness is less about certainty and more about capacity. It’s about whether you feel able to engage in the process without it consuming you. Questions that often signal readiness include: Can I hear buyer feedback without taking it personally? Am I open to adjusting plans if new information comes in? Do I feel rushed by external pressure, or supported by my own timeline? You don’t need perfect answers. You just need awareness. Why timing without readiness creates friction When sellers move forward before they’re emotionally ready, small issues tend to feel big. A slow week of showings can trigger anxiety. An inspection report can feel like a judgment. A negotiation can feel confrontational instead of procedural. None of this means the sale is wrong. It means the pace may be off. Slowing down earlier often prevents stress later. What readiness can look like in practice Emotionally ready sellers don’t necessarily feel detached. They feel grounded. They can hold both attachment to the home and curiosity about what comes next. They’re more likely to approach decisions as choices rather than ultimatums. That mindset creates flexibility, which tends to lead to better outcomes. A planning-forward reframe Instead of asking, “Am I ready to sell?” a gentler question is: “What would help me feel steadier before I start?” Sometimes the answer is time. Sometimes it’s information. Sometimes it’s simply knowing you’re not locked into a decision the moment you ask questions. That awareness alone can make the process feel far more manageable. ABOUT THE AUTHOR Andi Dyer is a Bellingham-based real estate broker with RE/MAX Whatcom County, specializing in helping longtime homeowners and sellers make confident, well-informed decisions. With a calm, data-driven approach and strong negotiation expertise, Andi focuses on protecting equity, reducing stress, and guiding sellers through the process with clarity and care. 📍 Serving Bellingham and all of Whatcom County 📞 Call or text: 360 • 734 • 6479 📧 Email: andi [at] andidyer [dot] com If you’re thinking about selling but want space to explore the idea without pressure, start here: 👉 Start with a low-pressure home value and seller planning tool here: https://www.andidyerrealestate.com/seller/valuation/ Zillow: https://www.zillow.com/profile/AndiDyer Rea l tor.com: https://www.realtor.com/realestateagents/andi-dyer Homes.com: https://www.homes.com/real-estate-agents/andi-dyer Google Business Profile: https://g.page/andi-dyer-real-estate Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndiDyerRealEstate Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andi.dyer
